Quick thought about rebuke versus facilitation of remedy. Rebuke is such a harsh word, but I want to include in the concept any time you lovingly try to correct someone. For sake of discussion, consider the two polarities of a response: Either the person will receive it, possibly apologize, and generally reflect how he or she may improve; or in the opposite, the person will reject, take offense, and possibly become angry or belligerent. (Between these, often people merely think you're a pain, ignore you, excuse themselves. ) RECEIVE - HUMBLE, REPENTANT, TEACHABLE HEART VS REJECT - PROUD, ANGRY, HARD HEART The one giving the rebuke however ought to consider their job is not merely to point out error, but to facilitate a resolve. Now it may not be wrong to suggest or outright bluntly rebuke a person, but if done so with extremity of words, it may tip the person from one side to the other depending on where or whether they are w...